((spedteach))
Hate so much you & your son are living in this ~ it must be very heartbreaking and difficult.
Only you will know when or how to approach your AH on this topic but a suggestion would be for you to take time to gather your thoughts, your boundaries and what you are sure you want to do if those boundaries aren't honored. . .
just a few examples. . .
_____ it is not healthy for our home life to have this much active drinking going on, do you think it is something that could be discussed and possibly changed?
or
I believe the drinking has reached an unhealthy level for everyone in our home. So here are a few things I think are in the best interest for me and our son to do to keep us healthy:
and then maybe let him know what actions you have decided is best for you & your son.
From my experience, I have benefited from journaling this information out, discussing it with my sponsor & my HP - seeking strength, guidance and wisdom to be able do this in a calm and peace manner.
Deep Breaths & PINK HUGS!