My "boys" are 19 and 23, and I worrie all the time about it. They seem to be "ok" with his drinking. Except that they worrie about his health. I don't want them to think that it is ok to drinmk like that. They should be able to look to their father as a GOOD example, not a drink! The worst thing is when my AH wants to "lecture" them about something, and he slurs his way through the whole thing! I just HATE that!