New BF relapsed on opiates, quickly turned to Heroin. His family blames me.
Hi. Im a Non addict in New Relationship with Opiate Addict (Heroin #1 choice). My first experience w/relapse. His Family blames Me. "he was doing fine until I showed up". Ive read alot about parents of addicts, since then (2-6-14). I havent seen or spoke, wrote him since. Im glad I havent had contact yet until I researched every different aspect. Views, Opinions, actual experiences. Ive plenty of questions and best part is Ive discovered My own issues I was Unaware of; Bad Habits that need change; that I am also Addict and have addictive traits.
I need alot more education on: 'signs of using or thinking about it'. Since relationship fairly new before his relapse "how much of it was Truth and does he rember any of it? Where did Truth stop before Lies started? Thank You