Florence, I agree. I really need to emotionally emancipate myself from him and my mom and all of my yucky stuff, but that's a big ol' project that I'm working on. I'm definitely talking to my counselor about this today. I was hoping that I was blowing this out of proportion in my mind when it happened but I can't let it go. But I know this stuff will keep happening so I need to learn how to handle it either on my own or jointly with him.
I guess the real answer is that I need to keep trudging along with my own recovery and just focus on being the best parent I can be. This shiz is tough!!!