house is on the market. custody is spliy about 50/50 and is flexible if either of us needs it to be.
the money issue is a tricky one....she is still co-owner of the business so has access to funds (so is in no hurry to work) - once house is sold and divorce is done I plan to then address that as the only outstanding issue.
She will be entitled to spousal support so I'll have to agree to pay something...how much will be interesting!
To be honest....dont care (too much) She worked hard for a long time so deserves a cut of my income. And the enjoyment I am having in life right now comes from my kids, friends, etc and is all pretty much free.
Money is not a huge worry for me.