I have struggled for years now, having an addicted daughter...when I think she is doing better and things are finally looking up, down she goes again, she is 25 years old now and this has been a battle for her for about seven years. She has been in rehab once and outpatient therapy once but she always decides she has had enough and will be fine on her own. Can I make her go to therapy again? Should I make her go to therapy? Do I tell her that I don't want to see her or hear from her again until she is clean? Do I just love her and look past the addiction while hoping and praying that someday she will overcome her addiction? I honestly don't know what to do anymore. And to top it off I have a 19 year old son who is struggling with addiction too. So what is the best thing to do????? Tell them I don't want to see them or talk to them until they are clean or just keep loving them and try to be a positive influence in their painful world? Please tell me how best to deal with this.....