Originally Posted by BlueChair

I finished reading a book called Beyond the Affair: Healing of a Marriage recommended by the family counselor I see with my husband. We both read it at her suggestion. Alone Ive been working on moving through the stages of "everything" to get to where I feel more peace and acceptance. I met another woman through the rehab, and she's also dealing with adultery, and suggested Dance of Anger might help. It was like a sign or something because i debated on buying it, and then I was at my parents, talking to my mom and she had read it a few years ago, and had it right in the library. She agreed it might help me deal with my feelings, and also see patterns might develop with my husband so I can head them off before they happen. If you read it again, I would be up for comparing notes.