It never ceases to amaze me the poor choices we (yes I am including MYSELF) continue to make over these alcoholic *****s....
YES it is a POOR choice to spend the night there. Please don't do it.
Why are you babysitting for him?
You're doing this because you want to see him and hope that he will have a light bulb moment and want you back, aren't you?
We've (I've) all done it, but guess what, 99.9% of the time it doesn't work and only hurts us-not them.
When we (myself included) continue to do things like this-we are taking giant steps backwards-and we only hurt ourselves-the alcoholic *****s couldn't care less about us.
Tell him to find another babysitter, pack up your things and send them to you.
PLEASE don't spend the night there, please!