I echo the above. Dangerous situation. Your loved ones safety is
paramount....there IS no other priority. Involve public safety early,
get a paper trail. Have a history in the computer so when the cops
roll up to your address they know the score.
I understand your reticence to get an RO. And you are right, a piece
of paper cannot stop someone. But that first piece of paper can snowball into
a judge's decree to put someone in prison for many years---backed up with
an armed force that can bring a billion times more firepower to the equation
than any meth addicted person could muster.Western society is intolerant of
this terrorism of women (ESPECIALLY Mothers), and there are special protocols
in place when dealing with them.
But you ARE in danger when in proximity to a meth addict.
You are not crazy. You are in the fight of your life.
Make the best decisions you can, then execute, evaluate, modify tactics
and repeat as necessary.
Society (and all of us) are on YOUR side.
ALWAYS.