It is a day like any other. It's not a magical day when addiction is cured and unicorns float thru the sky. I an not being a smarty pants. It just drives me nuts that this day triggers soooo many feeling in sooooo many people. I wish you all a great day. Do not stray from your boundries do not think cards, flowers and chocolates erase the damage drugs and alcohol have caused you. Treat if like any other, in 24 hours it will be long gone. To me it is and always will be the day after my son's birthday and that's why it makes me smile.