Originally Posted by
iwanthappiness 
I have a close friend who's marriage survived addiction. They separated for about a year, both worked on their programs and have been together, free of addiction/co-de for almost 10 years now!
I think the key is STAYING in the program, which both of them have done (but what do I know). However, I agree, it is rare.
Completely agree. Both my RXA and I are working strong programs ... but honestly... I don't want to live together or even live in the same state anymore!
I do keep fantasizing about an affair however... note to self: talk to therapist about this.