My best advice is listen to all of those who tell you to WAIT before making any major changes.
Specifically relationship changes in the first year of sobriety.
I didn't truly understand this until I messed it up, and it could easily have cost me my sobriety.
I discovered that my feelings about many things are different than I thought they were.
I realised how important it is to give ourselves the time to truly find out who we are as sober humans.
And to stay in constant contact with other recovering addicts/alcoholics.
Nothing in this past year has kept me more grounded than that.
Love to all,
V xx