I'm hopeful that I have similar success with these other issues
Hope is all we have sometimes. Just make sure that that's not all you're hanging on too! Sounds like you have an awesome plan for the convo.....just be prepared for possible rejection of what you say, but I hope she hears you!!
Do you know when you plan on having the "talk"? I had to pray, think, and plan for weeks in advance before asking my AH to move out, and I had to plan around his work schedule, as I didn't want it to disrupt his job. (A's can be so sensitive can't they?!?)