Here are some of my tools. They've all worked for me in some time of need:
1) AA meetings
2) Talking to another alcoholic
3) Cigarettes
4) Ice cream
5) A psychiatrist (just starting to use that one)
6) Asking for help -- this has been a huge thing for me to learn
7) Allowing myself rest & relaxation -- see above
8) SR lots & lots
9) Brief meditation every day
10) Sex
11) Taking steps to build a fuller life with people and interests & values