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Dee74 any ideas yet on what you can do differently Mvng?
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Dee, this is a good question, and I am thinking long and hard about it.
I think that I may have to make my commitment crystal clear to my husband (as I haven't in the past), as every failure I have had has been the result of some sort of outing between the two of us. He is a wine drinker, and he likes his companion. When I gave it up for 6 months, he thought I was nuts and over-reacting. It's a tough one----every single slip has been with him at my side. Not blaming him at all--just a reflection on our relationship, and how we have unfortunately "bonded" in the past. Lot's to think about here....very sad that for 20 plus years our lives have revolved around wine and dinner... The thing is, he now has some very serious health issues, and giving up the vino wouldn't hurt him a bit...but that's not happening. Regardless, this is my issue, and I need to figure this out.
Thanks for the kind support guys. I truly appreciate it.
Much love,
MV