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christinastar10 Thanks you. At this point he just keeps lashing out at me. Keeps reminding how he never cared for me and feels better that I'm not around..etc. This break up is getting ugly.
Blech.
Can you get some IRL support from a counsellor? Are you still living under the same roof? The more distance you get from this guy the better.
You might need some help to establish and maintain boundaries if you are going to have ongoing contact due to your child. It's not ok for him to lash out at you like this but the only thing you can control is how you react to it.