Thankyou for everyone's support it's been great! I do have a question though if any one could give me advice that would be great. Iv read on here that your not really supposed to date anyone until one year sober-my ex boyfriend finished with me At 3 months sober which broke my heart but I managed to stay sober. I have not dated anyone since and it's 8-9 months now. Iv been asked out buy a guy that I know from years ago but I havnt seen him in years and he wants to travel up to see me wer I live. Do you think this is a bad idea? As it's not one year yet?