Originally Posted by
987g 
Sometimes he says he hates women and only loves himself, other days he is spending every free moment with me.
This does not sound healthy, no matter how you slice it. I hope you are not developing romantic feelings for this person. I don't think he is partner material.
My xA would woman-bash, especially when drunk. And also was very self-involved. Not great qualities in a boyfriend.
For a while, I was determined to prove him wrong, makes things better, show him the light. Not possible, just a sad waste of time.
I hope things turn out better for you, take care of yourself.