Ugh you asked what we are. We've been friends forever and I'm really close to his family. We started spending more time together this year and became really good friends. That's kinda what the fight was about. It's like he can't make up his mind about anything. Sometimes he says he hates women and only loves himself, other days he is spending every free moment with me. Someone once told me that they think it's because I'm a fairly "normal" woman who doesn't have a boatload of issues and drama so it scares him because he doesn't know what to do. I guess that's supposed to be funny!