go to meetings. keep yer ears open. listen for the program. look for ones that keep comin back.
if ya want to hear what ya want to hear and not what ya need to hear, yer not gonna do too good. sometimes the truth hurts, but it is best taken with a dose of humility.
Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program...
...demands rigorous honesty.
...many of them do recover if they have the capacity to be honest.
We thought we could find an easier, softer way. But we could not.
Some of us have tried to hold on to our old ideas and the result was nil until we let go absolutely.