(((canada1)))
I know where your hate comes from, my A partner is progressively getting worse, the past year there have been more agruements, she does less at home. I am the bread winner and she has shown no interest in further education and no interest in returning to work. I am frightened of the potential break up and leaving her, but for my own sanity I know it is what I must do.
I will not offer any advice, as I man I do not feel I have experience to offer you, a mom any advice. It seems to me that the other ladies on the site have lots of real life experience to pass on. But I will offer my support, I understand the hate, I understand the fear for the future but I have started to realise that if your partner will not start the road to recovery then there is no point in hanging around. It has taken me a long time to reach this point, but them men tend to be a bit slow on the take up!!. Good luck.