He feels that since I left him he doesn't need to prove anything to me. I am here with him now getting some things taken care of here and while he did let me take him to AA he wouldn't let me go into the meeting with him ( he said its a closed meeting and I am not allowed to come in) He said he's been going for a few weeks although he had to use the GPS and just seemed like he didn't really know where it was. I have found cans of beer stashed around the car and house and he's really persistant that they are from before he stopped drinking. I am trying not to snoop and question him too much I just honestly feel lost as to how to set my boundaries and actually see the proof being so far away.