I struggle with this issue also I am still trying to figure out my true emotions and those emotions that are driven by my control issues.
After I read this thread I went back to the main page and read this thread. It really helped. I need to find my voice on this and trust that somethings I deserve to be angry about and stop stuffing my feelings.
WOW.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...24-2014-a.html