I lost it last night on my husband. He was being controlling over a very unimportant thing.
It just so happened as we were having this convo that I smacked my head but good on a kitchen cabinet corner.
He continued talking about the thing. A paper bag, actually, to give the unimportance of it weight.
So I snapped. I was in pain. I told him to STFU.
I have never said those words to him before.
In pain, or not in pain, I do not think my words fall into acceptable.
I do owe an apology.
I don't often lose it. I stuff it instead.
But when I do get angry, look out, dagger eyes, that tone, here it comes.
I'm not so sure it was wrong of you to let it all out.
You've probably been stuffing what you said for a long time, apparently.
Gave him some things to think about.
Not saying it was right, but I also don't think it was all wrong.