Originally Posted by
butterflyfree 
Well he is sober now (25 days) and has chosen to not go to meetings or outpatient rehab which we agreed upon, but I need something for me.
Just tell him that it provides a safe, anonymous place for you to work through your feelings. Or, don't tell him anything. It's for
you, not for him. If you go, I would recommend trying out several different meetings, at different times and going to a minimum of 6 meetings. I've only really been attending regularly for 2 months. I go to 2-3 meetings per week. Even if you don't feel like talking, so much is gained just from
listening.