wanttobehealthy,
Even after it was shown he assaulted you, this is still the arrangement? I'm flabbergasted....
Bodkin,
My kids school has an afterschool program that you can get discounted or free care at if you meet the financial requirements. I would check into that.
I would have to agree with an above poster about getting a court ordered parenting plan in place for you peace of mind. You can do this in mediation for almost no money.
Best of Luck, 4MyBoys