Thanks for letting me vent! It's just one of those many days. I go back and forth, literally, a hundred times a day. I know that now I have to do what's best for my daughter. I'm just not sure what that is yet. I understand everyone's point about her growing up with an alcoholic father. But I grew up with a single mom who I never saw because she had to work so much, and I hated it so much. I always swore I would never do that to my children. I have just started attending an Al-Anon group in my area. I am trying to get a handle on how his drinking affects me and how I react to it because obviously I have a problem in that area! Thanks!!!