Thanks for all the responses.
Carryon- He did not drink with kids in the car (he knew I wouldn't allow that, plus he knew that would be super stupid) and hasn't drank and drove since the ticket.
Hammer- Yea, I get a little OCD about the counting. He has cut back a bit for whatever reason. Not sure if it's bc of my insistence or he's just going to bed earlier right after 3rd or 4th beer. I am slightly relieved at this though I know it would be foolish of me to get at all excited so I will never do that even if he had zero beers. My father is a functioning A, so I know better than to do that.
During his "off-days" this wk, he had just two each day. He tends to drink less when he's off.
I really appreciate all the suggestions. I will def look into them. I'm going to bed now but it's nice to meet you all, wish it was under better circumstances but it does help me to feel less alone.
