A friend of mine was asking how things are w xAH and my answer surprised me...
Nothing at all has changed in him. Nothing has changed in how he behaves. But I truly have figured out for the most part to see humor or sadness in his antics vs letting myself spin crazily with him....
I have some new really good friends and have reconnected with old friends and am just excited about my life and all the options before me.
I sure as hell didn't think 3 yrs ago I could ever be so happy; and you know what? Things are not ideal, I am dirt poor and living paycheck to paycheck, my kids have a lot of issues to work through bc of what he and I subjected them to... But at the start and end of each day I have peace at home and enjoy my life more than I ever thought I could.
Funny how life is...
Yes! Yes yes yes. Me too. I'm about at three years on SR, too. Your progress looks good on you. It's amazing, isn't it? It's like being nose to nose with the stars and being able to pick the one you want. Before they were so far away and not meant for people like me.
I love the journey.