My AH told me as he was in a different city than I. I know I should have thought of this before. Thanks for reminding me. I need to write it down in my journal as I tend to forget the actions associated with the alcoholic mind. As for the counselor, I don't see any need to address it with him. If he said it he was right on the money even if he did not explain why to my AH. I will never know the exact conversation and somehow that doesn't bother me.
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