I don't know Zoe...I'm kinda wondering if there is every really an end for anyone. I think for an A it is always a struggle and the SO will always be on pins and needles wondering what's going to happen. Perhaps I'm just in a jaded mood, but that's how it feels to me. I guess we each have to decide whether the relationship is worth the stress it creates for us. Even if your H admitted to himself that he's an alcoholic, would he want to stop?
When my husband stops drinking, he always starts eating a ton of ice cream. This is a really stupid question....does ice cream have yeast? I don't think so...