Thanks, yes well my thinking is because he is handling not drinking so well and talking about all the positives, and how he isn't craving, and how he went out last night with friends and the kids and drove home was really good for him and he really wants to change, I am thinking maybe he isn't a tru alcoholic because he is handling it so well. the penny has dropped for him and he is genuine.
though today he was very grumpy and said something nasty to me he is sorry just saying he is sooo tired....we will see what time will do, gosh its hard though, and im thinking maybe I shouldn't go to al anon as he is not as bad as all the alcoholics I read about. grrrrr I wish I would over think every damn thing!!!!