I did it and yes all of us can!!!!!
This is my 9th day no drugs no alcohol no mood changers whatsoever. ... totally sober... and I can say I'm really proud of myself!!
I had the worst crave ever yesterday which lasted for almost 3 hours knowing that the biggest urge to use shouldn't last for more than 30 mnts, and on the last part of my crave I had a fight with my wife on the phone which made things even harder. I went wrong by not telling her abt my crave fearing that this would depress her and make her panic, I know how not healthy it is by not sharing these moments I finally called a friend 'sponsor' who's been sober for 11 years to tell him what I've been experiencing, and I posted on SR
I passed by a church and prayed it did help in a way.
Another issue I've been experiencing is the fights with my wife we also had a fight today I feel like she's asking me more than I can give right away....'she wants me to go to the gym but I'm still recovering from my last relapse' I dont know what I should do the fights with her are disturbing and this is the least thing I need now...
Anyways thank you all for your support...