Originally Posted by
FireSprite ^^Yes
Abelle, have you ever had a good friend point out something about yourself to you & it takes you totally off guard... "I do that??? Really?"
Then you are aware of it, start noticing it & can't believe you EVER didn't know this about yourself?
I think it's a similar dynamic, albeit a much more simplified comparison.
You mean they change your perception of yourself to more negative?
No, I can't remember a friend doing something like that.