Abelle

Already back, wanting to 'work things out'. 2 hours on the phone. Lots of positive stuff said, solutions offered, what seemed like a heartfelt apology.

Well, you all know me better than I am. But 2 things I've done. We agreed not to involve children, which means he won't be coming to mine to stay unless they are with their Dad. And 2, I've asked him how he would feel about me going to AlAnon meetings, which I am going to do anyway, as well as proceed with therapy as I wrote above.

He thinks things will be great between us again, no more arguing or drama.

Please don't be angry with me. My happiness is not to be abused. I come from full and loving family and yes, I went for 'the hot one in the room' with obvious issues, which clicked with my issues but I do care for happiness of my children and my own well-being. It's hard for me to break the connection, despite all that happened. But I think it will wear out anyway if he doesn't rethink everything. Which he probably won't.