Originally Posted by Hopeworks

Hi Abelle,

These are just thoughts... and you can take what you need and leave the rest. Maybe he is in a rut and will spin his wheels and get back on track and all this will be a distant bad dream some day... but there are lots of red flags here! AS we say... red flags are not party favors so don't collect them!

Guard your heart... you sound like a very together smart gal... and you have gotten a lot of feedback on this thread. You are ready to figure this thing out...we are all rooting for you and wish we had come here at 8 months! LOL... most of us were many years in and enmeshed by the time we got here.

Keep us posted...