Curmudgeon, Electrical Engineer, Guitar God Wannabe
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Where the mighty arms of Atlas hold the heavens from the Earth
Posts: 3,403
Ann brought up a very good point; when you leave him, it's going to be ugly. Make sure you are not alone when leave that place for good.
Once you do, block him from calling and texting you, and block him on all social media.
Protect yourself at all costs. If he shows up at your new place, call the cops and, if necessary, pursue a RO.
I would also strongly encourage you to seek therapy. Whether you're fully aware of this or not, you've been traumatized, and I think to have a professional to help you unpack your thoughts and feelings will be a benefit to you.
Please keep us in the loop. And stay safe.
ZoSo