I am 37 now and single. The vast majority of my friends/peers in similar age were married by 30 and have at least 2 kids now. In the last 10 years, I ruined 2 relationships that may well have been potential marriages. Looking back, I was more committed to the booze than I was to either girl, so I am happy things didn't progress to marriage as divorce would have been certain. I have only to worry about me now as I work recovery.