I don't want to be browbeaten. I just want to solve a problem.
your in a good place a lot of folks in our boat like to pull out the club and beat ourselves to death about our failures. Beating myself up always just led to justifying another drink.
it is simply just a problem that needs to be resolved I'd say dont over complicate it much more then that. The decision to not drink is pretty stinken simple you just dont. its actually a lot more difficult to drink you gotta like go tot he store and get it and open it and pay for it smell it not over drink etc... so much involved with drinking.
Not drinking however is really simple. you just dont drink.
We just overcomplicate the HECK out of it in our heads.