We both enjoy going to breweries. For example, two weeks ago we went to the Sam Adams brewery which was pretty informative and a lot of fun. In a week we are attending a BYOB painting class (my new found lifestyle will have me drinking some sparkling cider, yum!). There is a beer and chili festival that my town hosts every September and it's a blast.
sorry - the was this was thrown in there makes it sound like - it kinda was about you and your boyfriend and activities that are centered around drinking... at any rate ...i am seeing a LOT of "no's" : / hope it works out for you.