Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
We are both kind and sweet and loving.. and the friend boundies always get crossed... When I go gome and try make contact again he is cold and downright rude..
I think that's known as a booty call. he gets what he wants and then he's done with you again.
only you can decide if you are worth MORE>
Yes--he clearly is in control of the situation.
You really really need to not be involved with this person at all
from what you've posted. He's using you.