you arent too far gone... maybe youre right where you need to be ...
= I say - go all out -- if you want to quit drinking - go to a meeting tomorrow- stand up and say my name is ______ i am an alcoholic and I am super shy so please dont let me leave here without talking to me .... i know it sounds crazy - but what have you got to lose?
= if thats too much - maybe try wearing a name tag or writing a note to the same affect or just sitting back down when the meeting is over instead of rushing out the door.