Originally Posted by
choublak 
Would you mind telling me how I'm annoying as hell, so I can work on not being that way anymore?
Absolutely Not!
It is likely part of what makes you adorable.
Really, I regret saying it. I meant it mostly tongue-in-cheek, sort of joking.
Maybe it is like what I joke my style of "love" is.
I used to joke with Mrs. Hammer that while I was annoying, it works like love. My being annoying would make her think of me. If she thought about me, she may think she loves me. So the more annoying I was, the more she would love me.
At any rate, I would strongly suggest to NOT change ANYTHING about you based on the jackass comments of a nutcase on the internet who clearly has more self-problems than you.
[that would be me]
Really choublak, when you get to your Personal Inventory (Step 4), if you really see anything that indicates you have an issue with that, maybe put on the list for an experienced sponsor to go over with you -- not a nutcase on the internet who clearly has more self-problems than you. [again, that would be me]
But I really do admire you for wanting to be a better you.