Help
I am new to this site but not to the life of being a crackhead's mother. My 36 year old son relapsed last year and is spiralling downward so fast. He was clean for almost 6 years.
Today was the first time in all his using years (there were 7 before he got clean the first time) that he has ever blamed me for his life and the fact that he is about to lose his wife and daughter, saying it is my fault. I am crushed and disillusioned beyond belief. I asked him not to contact me again until he was sober and he said he will never contact me again EVER. What have I done?? I don't know how to help him or help him help himself (if that makes sense?) How far does he have to go before he will realize that he is messing his life up beyond repair? Is there nothing to help a crackhead medically? I have read web sites until I can't keep my eyes open and it all seems so hopeless.