Hi Dandylion! Thanks so much, you have been so helpful to me and I love the Bruce Springsteen story! I will enlighten him on that
I feel like learning to detach from XAB has helped me interact with my son this time. I used to react and we would argue but so far I have not engaged him when he starts his crazy talk. I just stay calm and give my motherly advice but let him know its his choice to make. I will not buy beer for him or let him smoke in the house. If he wants to stay here he has to get a job and buy his own food if u don't have what he likes here. I'm on a budget myself and live modestly. We will see what tomorrow brings. He said he has an apartment with a friend but the friends gf had a baby and is in the hospital and he just hasn't gotten the key yet? Hmmmm no job no money but has an apartment. Says he can find a job no problem he's a rock star! Lol