Thank you so much for your responses. It is heartbreaking to watch your children make poor life choices but you have to let them fall as trudgingagain said. I pray for his safety and that he finds his way. I think I will direct him here too. He may find out who suncatcher is if he reads what I post here but maybe that would be a wake up call for him too. Thanks again, everyone and wishing all of you peace and gentle hugs.