I did the separate bank account thing when my career started to take off as a writer because every penny I earn in direct deposit. While I haven't been able to put away any kind of nest egg, I have found a rental in the same community that is quite affordable and large enough for the girls, myself and our pets. Plus, it feels like a healing environment for all.
My RAH has always used money as a means of control. Always.
Thanks so much EVERYONE for the support. I hate knowing that there are so many that are in similar situations. At the same time, I am so grateful for the support and guidance of someone else who has been down the road I'm on and found a life at the end of it.
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