Hi trudging;
Don't feel bad. She was BSing you and you showed her you knew. Addicts hate that.
I know I did.
So she's twisting in the wind and swinging at you while she's doing it.
Now is the time for the delete button. Husband will get over it.
I think you are doing amazingly well with all of it.
She needs to be responsible for herself. She's an adult.
That's the hardest thing to do sometimes when you just want to fix it.
Hugs from your fellow Tober (((((trudgingagain)))))