Rose, I'm so sorry to hear that you are enduring such sad disrespect from your own son. You sure do deserve to be treated respectfully. I hope that you know that. NOBODY ever has the right to call you demeaning names. I hope that you won't let him treat you like that anymore. It's so hard, but he is a grown man & really can take care of himself if he really wants to. It's really his responsibility now, not yours. It was so hard for me to learn this, but I finally did. I told my son that he could live his life however he chose, but I didn't want to live my life in that way anymore.
((((Supportive Hugs))))