Even if she stops drinking things are not going to change overnight. I am not trying to be harsh but you are really taking on a victim mentality in this situation. You do you and let her do her. I hope al-anon is helping you focus more on yourself. You're still monitoring her drinking, which is pointless and frustrating for you. Let her take care of her own stuff. Try to detach. Once you do it for a while you'll feel a a whole lot better.
Hugs to you.